If the father of your child got your friend pregnant.
When would you prefer they tell you.

Literally curious to know if im being irrational by feeling betrayed. You know how it gets ?
So here's Details to consider before answering:

-they aren't in a relationship
-ex wanted DNA test
- I contacted regularly to check in on her pregnancy
& see my ex every fortnight when he has our daughter (plenty of occasions to say, not as though we didn't speak)

AFTER - They wait until baby is born to be sure it's his before they tell you
BEFORE - Let you know in the beginning of pregnancy that the baby might be his
NEVER - Regardless of being my friend and my ex, it's none of my business and they didn't have to tell me. - Respect for me is irrelevant in this situation
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